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Thursday, January 14th, 2010 03:13 pm
There are several religious charities currently co-ordinating efforts to raise funds for relief efforts in Haiti following the 7.0 magnitude earthquake that struck yesterday:


The Muslim charity Muslim Hands is also involved in relief efforts in Haiti.

In addition, several global Jewish organizations are also taking donations to aid relief efforts. They include:


Various pagan groups, organisations and sympathetic companies are also contributing to relief efforts:



If you're looking for a non-religious NGO to donate to, I can highly recommend the following:
  • Medecins Sans Frontieres (Doctors Without Borders)
  • The Disasters Emergency Committee is co-ordinating charitable efforts in the UK.
  • UNICEF is also accepting donations to aid relief efforts in Haiti; if you have a Lightspeed account, you can donate accrued points from participating in consumer surveys to UNICEF; 600 points equal a £5 donation, 1200 points equal a £10 donation – and every little helps.

    See here for a regularly updated list of agencies responding to the crisis and accepting donations.
Arkady: Eve
Friday, January 8th, 2010 02:30 pm
The following is the text of the complaint I have just sent to Sainsburys Online after they cancelled our booked delivery for this evening.

I have just received a call from the driver due to deliver our order today between 6pm and 7pm, claiming that due to the icy conditions reported for our area that they have cancelled our order.

This is most curious, as the streets in this area are drivable and not icy, due to gritting by the council and regular traffic, and TfL bus services are running normally and unaffected.

If TfL are able to run a normal service in current conditions, why are Sainsburys not capable of doing the same?

The driver stated that his manager would not allow the delivery to be rebooked for tomorrow, but that they would hold the order and I could collect it from the store in person myself tomorrow morning. If I were capable of collecting the order in person I would not be ordering online! The driver was very unhelpful and dismissive.

The driver would not give his name or that of his manager; however the call was placed to my mobile from mobile phone number [redacted] at 14:05.

I have been a customer of Sainsburys Online for a number of years and have never had cause to complain before, but this incident leaves me very disappointed in the attitudes of Sainsburys Online and its staff.

Any company can do well when things are going well, but the test of a company is how well it does when things are going wrong. I am now forced to place this order elsewhere.

I await your soonest reply, explanation of the driver's failure to give his name or his manager's name or pass me to said manager, and what Sainsbury's can do to get my custom back, and that of everyone I know, in the future.



The "dangerously icy" road in question.


In the meantime, I'm placing the order with ASDA instead. I heartily recomment mysupermarket.co.uk, BTW; it keeps track of your most recent orders, so you can place an order made with one supermarket with another - very useful for just such an event as today's failure by Sainsburys.

[Addendum] I ended up placing the order with Tesco, as the earliest ASDA delivery slot available is Thursday but Tesco could deliver on Tuesday. As we were almost out of milk, I walked round to the local Co-op to do some shopping to keep us going for the next few days. WHilst out I saw home delivery vans from Ocado, Tesco and ASDA. This makes Sainsburys look even worse in comparison.
Arkady: Eve
Thursday, December 31st, 2009 06:07 pm
A lot has happened to me over the past ten years. Decade meme )

Which now brings us to the end of 2009 as we look forward to the new year and the new decade. The past 10 years have seen a lot of badness, but also good things: getting to know a lot of new friends, my relationship with David, and finishing the decade with all my daughters living with me. I've battled with depression and bad fortune and emerged a stronger person for it; I am stronger, happier and healthier now than I have been in years.

So bring it on, 2010. I can take anything you can throw at me.
Arkady: Eve
Monday, December 28th, 2009 11:24 pm
There's just over half an hour of my birthday left, and a very nice birthday it has been indeed. David gave me a copy of "Greasing the Pan: The Best of Paul Riddell", which I hope one day to get signed by the author himself. :-) Kathy gave me a wonderful pink top covered in skulls and roses; she knows me so well. *grins* Dani's gift to me was make-up and nail polish; perfect timing, as I was in the process of putting on my make-up and found I'd run out of liquid eyeliner (most likely due to Dani having borrowed mine so much in the first place)!

This afternoon was spent exploring the V&A in the company of David, Dani, Freda and [personal profile] mirrorshard, who is the perfect companion for wandering around a museum of an afternoon. Sadly the Music Instruments room is only open on the second Wednesday of each month, so David didn't get the photo of a euphonicon he was after for Wikipedia, but I enjoyed looking at the harpsicords and virginals on display in other galleries, and got a few photos that I hope will come out OK when I upload them; my Ixus 430 was being a trifle temperamental.

Dani cooked dinner; it's always nice to have someone else cook for a change! Overall a very pleasant way to spend my 37th birthday. :-)

It's Kathy's 15th birthday tomorrow, so I shall be busy baking a birthday cake and banishing her from the kitchen. ;-)
Arkady: Eve
Sunday, December 6th, 2009 01:41 am


David and I discovered last weekend that a branch of Paks had opened here in Walthamstow, which means no longer having to traipse to Finsbury Park for professional salon hair abuse supplies - everything I (and the teens) need is right here only a 20 minute walk away from our own front door! So I duly took advantage of the chance to grab salon colour pigment; this is 0,6 red by Maxim (a French company) which I prepared 1:1.5 with 40 vol cream peroxide. The peroxide was about £6 for a litre of the stuff, and the pigment was about £3. It means I can now do a salon-quality dye job in the commfort of my own home for less than a tenner. Of course, that also involves that inevitable moment when the bathroom looks like I've been butchering a deer in it...!

I'm pretty pleased with it thus far, but I have further plans involving bleaching the fringe then dyeing it purple fading down to blue. :-)
Jareth: Hmmm....
Thursday, November 26th, 2009 08:22 am
Man is not saved by faith or works alone
(Ephesians 2:8-10).

What if one’s motivation is not salvation, but simply that faith and good work seem the only natural and right thing to do?
Arkady (Freakangels): Eye
Thursday, October 29th, 2009 10:33 pm
The needle she used to pierce her lip with? Only my best darning needle.

So. Think I should point out to her I last used it to darn a hole in the seat of David's jeans? *evil grin*
Arkady (Freakangels): Eye
Thursday, October 29th, 2009 11:51 am
Kathy just walked into the living room and smiled at me to show off her "snakebite" labret piercings that she did herself last night at about 3am. Apparently she got bored. Looks like the tendancy to do mad things at 3am is an inherited family trait; we'll have to start a list of "Things Kathy is Not Allowed To Do".
Coffee (Utena)
Monday, October 26th, 2009 11:16 pm


Most little girls, at some point or other, dream of wearing pretty dresses, being a princess and dancing with their Prince Charming.

It's probably rather telling that I wanted to be Prince Charming.
pleased
Monday, October 19th, 2009 08:25 pm
Discussion on a friend's phpBB forum turned to corsets earlier today; one of the girls had just ordered her first ever corset - a Vollers. She was asking for advice on what size to go for and how to lace it up yourself. MM, who is a few years my senior and a regular at Torture Garden, posted up a couple of shots of herself; she mentioned that about 3" reduction was as much as she was comfortable with although she could get down to 4" with effort. I happened to mention that although I've gone from a natural 28" waist to 30" post-pregnancy, I could still tightlace to 24".

Which led to this photo:



Not bad for a 36-year-old mother of 3.

David said I ought to dress up for it, and I'm wishing now that I had!
Kai
Sunday, October 18th, 2009 06:03 pm


Kai, the first BJD I ever saw and the one that got me into the hobby in the first place, posing on my shoulder. You can't quite see it in this photo, but he and I have matching manicures. :-)

Kai is a Cerberus Project El and stands 60cm tall. His clothing, jewellery and face-up are all by me.

This photo was taken for the Den of Angels 100 Photography Prompts Challenge: Prompt #1 - Self-Portrait With Doll.
Arkady: Eve
Saturday, October 17th, 2009 11:40 pm

Photo Post
Originally uploaded 17 Oct '09, 11.33pm BST PST.



I used to do stuff like this with my nails all the time, before the depression; before it got to be too much effort. The girls have been encouraging me to do more with my make-up lately, which made me realise all my old bottles of nail polish had dried up and needed to be replaced.

I wore plain red polish today for the interment of my Nana's ashes; this evening after Freda and I got home, I decided to play a little and fancy it up. It's very simple compared to the elaborate stuff I used to do, but it's still more than I've done in years.
Arkady (Freakangels): Eye
Tuesday, October 13th, 2009 02:24 pm
Trafigura and Carter-Ruck backed down shortly before the 2pm High Court hearing and lifted the gagging order; it must have been obvious it was going to be overturned even to them. The overwhelming response from the blogosphere and Twitter must have been a very nasty surprise for them!

Kudos also to the Spectator, which was the only other media outlet to report on the story. And a big thumbs-down to the BBC and Channel 4 who refused to report on it even when directly asked. Even now that reporting restrictions have been lifted, there is NO mention of it on the BBC website. Shame on you, BBC.

It has been revealed that Trafigura were indeed trying to cover up the injunction against reporting in the British press of the Minton report, on the alleged dumping of toxic waste in the Ivory Coast, commissioned by Trafigura. In several incidents, Trafigura dumped thousands of tons of sulphurous coker naptha mixed with caustic soda off Côte d’Ivoire in 2006, with full knowledge as detailed in internal emails that doing so would likely cause thousands of injuries and deaths. The chemical waste came from a ship called Probo Koala and in August 2006 truckload after truckload of it was illegally fly-tipped at 15 locations around Abidjan, the biggest city in Ivory Coast. This led to 16 deaths and 31000 injured.

Trafigura can now thank Carter-Ruck for having ensured that by trying to gag the British press, pretty much the whole world now knows exactly what Trafigura did.

[Edit to add] The BBC finally reported on the lifting of the gag nearly three hours afterwards with a very mealymouthed piece.
Arkady: Eve
Tuesday, October 13th, 2009 12:20 am
London solicitors Carter-Ruck, who specialise in suing the media for clients (who include individuals or global corporations), have actually gagged the Guardian newspaper from reporting Parliamentary proceedings on legal grounds which appear to call into question privileges guaranteeing free speech established under the 1688 Bill of Rights. It's apparently about the question highlighted in red, which has already been on Newsnight(take a good look at the picture Trafigura are responsible for). The blogger Guido Fawkes also covers it.

Please repost this and spread this widely. Carter-Ruck may have gagged the Guardian (for now), but they cannot silence every voice in the blogosphere.
Arkady: Eve
Monday, October 12th, 2009 12:25 am
Apparently in the US, the 11th October is National Coming Out Day. Here in the UK it's now the early hours of Monday the 12th, but over on the other side of the Atlantic it's still the 11th.

I don't think I've ever been particularly secretive about my (lack of) sexuality, but nor have I felt the need to particularly push it in people's faces; but then again lack of sexuality isn't seen as threatening as being differently sexual. So, in solidarity with those whose sexuality has made them the targets of small-minded bigots, I am hereby coming out.

Hi, my name's Arkady, and I'm an asexual, polyamorous pan-romantic. I am somewhat genderflexible, though I've finally adjusted to being reasonably tolerant of my physically female body.

And I firmly look forward to the day when the phrase "coming out" is rendered obselete, when no-one ever has to fear again the reactions of others based on one's personal preference of gender and/or numbers of partners; when sexuality and gender are no longer political but purely personal matters and all are truly equal.

Sadly, I don't think it will happen in my lifetime. But I can hope for it within the lifetimes of my children.
Thylacine
Sunday, October 11th, 2009 12:10 am
The following is an open letter (I'm not sure by whom, but it's been reposted by [personal profile] rozk amongst others, which is good enough for me); please read and repost.

London trans activists call for boycott of sham demo on October 17th

We are a group of trans activists who wish to make known our concerns about a demo, claiming to support the depathologisation of trans people, in London on 17th of October. The facebook group for the demo can be found here:

http://www.facebook.com/event.php?eid=147494409183

The description of the event reads:

"Being transgendered is not a mental illness. We are simply part of the diversity of humanity. Gender Identity Disorder is therefore not a valid diagnosis. Homosexuality we removed as a mental health diagnosis diagnosis in 1987. For us to achieve true liberation and recognition we need to throw off this unjust stigma. We are not ill, just different"

A large number of people were invited by the demo organiser, a non-trans man by the name of Dennis Hambridge, and some of us were initially concerned by the rationale for the demo. In particular, we were worried that campaigning for the removal of Gender Identity Disorder as a medical diagnosis without proposing an alternative mechanism by which transsexual people would be able to access medical transition resources was premature and dangerous, especially in a climate where NHS primary care trusts need only a minimal excuse to deny funding for our hormonal and surgical procedures. We do not support the labelling of our gender identities as disordered, and realise that our relationship with the medical community is far from ideal, but do not wish to support a movement which may give the impression that we seek complete divorce from the medical community.

These concerns were put to the Facebook group by a number of trans activists. Rather than address them, Mr Hambridge entrenched his position, making claims that gender dysphoria was an artefact of society and the medical community, and that removal of any form of classification of gender dysphoria by the WHO was "non-negotiable".

In moves more reminiscent of the actions of transphobic radical feminists than supposed allies of trans people, Mr Hambridge started deleting some of the comments from those trans people who were concerned about our future access to hormones and surgery. Subsequently he banned a number of those trans people from the group, silencing them in that space.

To reiterate - Mr Hambridge, who is organising a demo which is allegedly supporting the rights of transsexual people is using his position as a group organiser to silence and shut out the voices of the very people he claims to support.

In light of Mr Hambridge's intransigence and refusal to listen to the voices of actual transsexual people, we are calling on all activists who support the concept of transsexual people having a say in our own medical care to boycott this demo. We further call on Mr Hambridge, who is not trans himself, to stop claiming to speak on our behalf when he is ignoring our protestations and silencing our voices, and to call off his demo.

Please spread this open letter widely.


The tl;dr version basically is thus: Non-trans man decides to have a demo in support of trans issues - and bans trans people from talking about it on his Facebook group because he thinks he knows what transpeople need better than they do.
Gosh
Friday, October 9th, 2009 11:19 am
Barack Obama has won the Nobel Prize for Peace after less than a year as President of the US.

Rather impressive.
Feeling down
Tuesday, September 15th, 2009 07:28 am
Patrick Swayze has died of pancreatic cancer at the age of 57.

:-(